Letter to my 25-year-old self

Letter to my 25 year-old self

I turned 25 and I feel like I should write something wise here. Keep a big speech. I mean, write a blog post. God knows I give no speeches, unfortunately. It’s better for both the crowd and my mental health (and my pride).

But I’m just not sure what to say.

To be honest, I feel like big things are happening around me. To other people. My sisters are moving to different cities, starting new jobs and studies. My friend starts new studies. My other friend is making big changes with her work. I feel like everyone else is ‘making it’.

And I’m just here. At the same spot.


I wish I had something big to tell you, or have some big revelation. I guess I also wish that, because 25 feels like an age, where you are supposed to, well, I’m not sure what. But no, I’m still a work in progress. I’m still changing and finding my way. I do know myself and I’m getting more confident as time goes by. But I just can’t stand here and declare to the world that I feel absolutely fantastic, 100% confident in everything I do at the fantastic age of 25.

I’m scared, to be honest. I know now how quickly years pass and I want to make the most out of them. At the very least, I should have a clear path in front of me, right?

And it’s stupid. These thoughts are stupid. It’s just a number. It’s just another day and another month. I’m here and I’m breathing, aren’t I?

I get up in the morning. I have good and bad days. Some days everything I touch turns to gold and I see everything clearly. But sometimes I feel so lost even a run in the dark doesn’t cure it. I try and push myself out of my comfort zone, even though it feels so very difficult at times.

I have people around me and I laugh, cry, eat, exercise, walk and talk with them. I watch movies and cry at both sad and happy endings. I dream about Maldives. I dream about a new office. I love sitting in the car and watching buildings pass by. I make new personal records with my muscles – and sometimes with my brain. And I do, still, feel like a princess on my birthday.

Nothing big is happening right now, but I guess it’s good. The details are still there. The little things, that are actually big things.

I’m healthy and my family is healthy. My friends are doing good. My life feels meaningful in all its simplicity.

At the core of my being, I’m very happy. And at the moments of stress, anxiety and sadness, I’m reminded that I’m very much alive.

But since I know I wanted to hear it:

Keep on going. You’re fulfilling your dream and you’re working hard, I know. Go on, don’t stop. It might feel like a dream now, but soon it’s so real you’re gonna regret not enjoying the journey. Believe in yourself. And always say yes to a good cup of coffee.

Oh, and finally: you’re not in a hurry.  Happy, happy birthday.

24 things i've learned in 24 years
Photos of me wearing a red top: Mia / Beauty Highlights
The other photos are from a year ago from this post when I turned 24.

Photography tips for beauty bloggers & beginners

Photography tips for beauty bloggers & beginners

Photography tips for beauty bloggers & beginners

When it comes to blogging, photos are everything. A part of me wants to argue that they’re not, that writing is just as important, but let’s face it: the first thing people look at when they stumble upon your blog are photos. Not everyone even reads the text. One might just scroll through the photos and read a sentence here and there.

Luckily, taking good photos – even as a beginner – is easy. You just need good lighting, a bit of practice and an eye for aesthetic.

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How I take photos for my beauty blog

In this post I will share my photography tips for beauty bloggers and beginners. How to take beautiful product flat lays? How to style the products with props? What lights do I use? What editing tools do I use? Hopefully this post answers all your questions and helps you to master some easy tricks.

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First things first: what equipment do you need for taking beautiful photos?

Beginner’s tools for blog photography:

You need a camera that takes good, sharp photos. You can just use your phone camera (most phones have a good camera these days) or you can use a digital camera. I use both, but mainly my digital camera, because that takes the best high quality photos and it just feels more natural to me.

Olympus Pen camera is awesome, because it’s easy to use, it’s quite lightweight, small and good for travel too. It has a flip screen, which is crucial for beauty bloggers. That’s my secret for getting good makeup photos – I can actually see what I’m doing. I’ve been using Olympus PEN camera for all my blogging career and it honestly has all that a beginner needs. And there’s still room for improvement too – the camera comes with different filters and settings you can play with to bring your photography to the next level. (Scroll a bit lower to learn more about using Olympus PEN E-PL8 – the one I currently have.)

Samsung S9+ is the perfect phone for me because of its high-quality camera. I’m not always carrying my digital camera, so it’s a must have for me. It’s also handy when I’m travelling with light luggage. The camera in the phone also has some nice “pro” settings as well, so I can change the light settings, white balance etc. in the photo. All my travel photos are taken with this and a lot of my Instagram photos. I also film makeup videos to my Instagram Story with it.

*Samsung S9+
*Olympus Pen E-PL9 Kit (newest PEN camera)

I also have *a tripod/camera stand that I use when I don’t have somebody to help me take photos. Which is, quite often.  When I do that, I usually connect my phone to my camera so that I can see what I’m doing and I get a great photo.

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Photographed by my tripod (and my phone, which I’m hiding behind my back and using to take the photo).

Photo taken with Samsung S9+ phone.


If only it was summer all year long, I wouldn’t need lights. But it just so happens, that it’s not sunny every day, nor do I have natural light whenever I need it. Natural light is the best for any type of photography in my opinion, but as someone living in Finland, artificial lights are a lifesaver for me. And chances are, that’s the case with you too. Or perhaps you like to work in the evening?  Lights give you freedom to work wherever you need to and for product photos, studio lighting actually works really well. I use my soft box for product photos and for any photos that I take at home. It’s so much better than just turning on the regular lights we have at home (though in winter those are obviously on as well. It gets dark, man).

And as for makeup photos, ring lights are awesome. Ring light gives a softer and more even light to the face. You can use soft box as well, but ring light is better.

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Makeup photo taken with a softbox light.
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Makeup photo taken with the use of a ring light. Makeup was done by https://www.instagram.com/mariaalexandran/.

You can get a good deal from amazon and I have bought all my lights from there. They are also handy since they come in reasonable sized bags. Since I don’t have a studio at home, I need to pack my lights away whenever I don’t use them and they fit in my closet.

*Soft box
*Ring light

I also sometimes use my *lighted makeup mirror for photos.

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Behind the scenes of a makeup flat lay. I’m shooting next to a window. Using white cardboard and foil to create a small studio full of light!


One of the cool things about light is that you can bend it. You just need a reflector for that. Anything white or reflective such as a mirror or foil works. I haven’t yet bought any professional reflectors, though they would be awesome for outfit photos. I actually just use foil and white cardboards. I like to create a box with white walls and trap the light in – then I have a little studio for my products and I can get beautiful well-lighted photos. You don’t need that many soft boxes when you use reflectors. It’s genius.

White cardboard

Using flowers as props (pretty common, but it works) and a white cardboard to reflect light.


Props are not an absolute must, but they do make the photos interesting and give them character. Your character. I like to style my photos with flowers, magazines, coffee beans, jewellery or some decorations I happen to have at hand. Just make sure to not over-style it. If there’s too much happening, the photo can end up looking messy and the actual products don’t stand out as they should. Styling your photos is something you need to practice. Try different set ups and different angles.

Photography tip: think about what it is you want to say with the photo. How do you want to portray the products you’re photographing?  For example, a while back I photographed some luxury makeup products. I wanted to showcase the luxurious feel they have, so I photographed them with a glamorous bag and kept it simple.

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How to use your digital camera  – what settings to use?
Using Olympys PEN E-PL8 for blog photography

There are so many settings and options in digital camera, you might feel overwhelmed at first. As a beginner you might just want to stick with auto settings. Confession time: that’s what I did for the first year using my camera. I’ve taken baby steps when it comes to learning to use my digital camera and I’m going to go over just the basics. Because that’s enough. You don’t need to be a professional photographer in order to take beautiful blog photos. (Though that doesn’t hurt.) And frankly, the auto setting is pretty smart and takes good photos.

I usually take my photos with P or A settings. With those I always set my white balance. I also sometimes use macro, document or portrait mode.

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Different white balance settings in Olympus Pen.
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This photo is actually taken in our bathroom, in horrible yellow light. But since I changed the white balance in my camera, the light looks cool and nice.

White balance AKA getting the colors right

It’s important that the colors in your photo look right. And that’s where white balance comes in. It basically means that you can set the white balance to match your surroundings in a way, that the white color actually looks white. Not yellow or blue, which can happen in indoor lighting sometimes. This way your photos look fresh and clean and you can decide just how cool or warm you want your photos to get.

In Olympus there are already different white balance settings for a sunny or cloudy weather, for green, incandescent lighting and more. You can also set the white balance manually by taking a picture of a white wall or paper in the lighting you want to use. Here are some more instructions on that: https://www.olympusamerica.com/crm/oneoffpages/crm_whitebalance.asp

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Olympus Pen P-setting.

P-setting is so nice, because I can add or remove lightness already while taking the photo. I usually film with +0.7 or +1.0.

Small and Big Aperture Difference Olympus pen e-pl8

Aperture AKA how to get that blurry background

With product photography you usually want the product to look sharp and the background somewhat soft. A blurred soft background looks nice and brings some depth to the image. You can achieve a blurry background by using big aperture (small F number), which means that the camera focuses on the subject you choose and the background is not focused. You can also achieve this by editing and simply blurring the background, but it’s just less work this way.

If I want just a small part of my image focused (such as a lipstick), I choose big aperture, meaning a small aperture number on my camera. If I take a big flat lay with lots of products and want all the products to be sharp, I choose small aperture, meaning a big number on my camera.

This article was very helpful in understanding aperture: https://www.olympusamerica.com/crm/oneoffpages/crm_e_aperture.asp

Digital camera is also handy, because it comes with scene modes. They are good to use!

Macro mode
Handy for any detail photos, such as product photos or makeup detail photos.

Portrait mode
I’m not sure what this mode does exactly, but it makes a nice selfie.

Documents mode
This mode actually works nicely for flat lays. It makes the products and the text in the products sharp. A lot of my photos, especially from a few years ago, are taken with this mode.

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Photo editing programs for bloggers (that are easy to use)

I use *Paintshop Pro for editing my photos. Before I purchased that, I used GIMP. GIMP is free and a good option for anyone going to this blogging thing with a budget. I also use Paint for making quick collages.

That said, Paintshop Pro is awesome and worth the small investment. It doesn’t require monthly or yearly payment like Lightroom does. You just have to buy it once and I think that’s a fair deal. It’s also easier to use than GIMP. You can use the ‘Essentials’ workspace that is very beginner-friendly or the ‘Complete’ workspace, that is better for pros. I use the Essentials mode and it has everything I need.

It’s easy to play with lights and colors with Paintshop Pro. I can easily fix white balance, make dark photos light or make blurry photos sharp. And there are some really handy presets, that I use quite often. Paintshop Pro comes with some great beauty tools as well, for when you need to remove a pimple, make your skin look more tanned or smooth the skin. I personally try and edit my makeup photos very minimally, but I might still remove a monster-sized pimple from my skin or fix my skintone.

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Okay, then let’s get to some details. The three most important things in editing photos are 1. light 2. colors and 3. size. Actually, it might even be in reverse order – because size really really matters, if you want your blog to succeed.

Light – Brightness and Contrast
I would say the lighter the better – just don’t over-expose the photo. A moody dark photo might be a nice contrast every now and then, but all in all, people like to look clean, fresh light photos. But just how light should the photo be? Well, it’s up to you. Editing photos is personal. It’s almost like your trademark. Some people take really soft, super light photos. Others prefer more contrast.

A simple tool to edit lights are Levels. It shows you the guidelines so you know where to add light and where to add shadow. I usually just drag it to where the guidelines AKA those grey mountains show me. The right slider will bring light to the light areas, the left slider will darken shadows and the middle part lightens the midtones. If I want to add more lightness overall to the photo, I drag the middle part. This is hard to explain, but I circled the things in the photo to show you what I’m talking about!

Paintshop Pro Levels
Following the guidelines using Levels. It’s a small change, but the after photo looks so much better!

Fill Light/Clarity Paintshop Pro

In *PaintShop Pro I also use Fill Light/Clarity, which is awesome for when my lighting is a bit off and has some darker shadows. Highlight/Midtone/Shadow is also awesome for overall lightness, because you have control over everything, basically.


When it comes to colors, it’s even more personal. Do you want the colors to be very bright or a bit toned down? It’s up to you. You can create your own theme for the photos by playing with colors. You can also choose one color or tint as a theme to all of the photos on your blog. That way the whole blog looks very harmonious, since all of the photos on the site have the same color theme. For product photography and makeup photos though, you usually want the colors to be quite bright and realistic. The camera does ‘eat’ some of that color, you see. I might add saturation or vibrancy to my photos. Again, it’s very easy in Photoshop Pro. You can actually change up the color completely, if you so wish, and even create your own presets.

Friday Faye is one of those famous bloggers, who has a pink theme to their photos. It has become her trademark. Her blog and photos are so inspiring! She also shared her tips on flat lay photography here.

Getting that blurry background in Paintshop Pro

It’s easy to just film with F1.8 to get that blurry background, but you can obviously also just edit that. There are many ways to do that in Paintshop Pro, but Depth of Field is one of the easiest. Here I just did a quick selection to make the background blurry.


Ah, size. The biggest mistake I see even big bloggers make. I feel like a lot of people think that the bigger the size, the better. But do you want to know a secret? My photos are usually 700-1000 pixels wide. And my blog automatically packs my photos and makes them smaller. Why? So that the site works better! This way my blog loads very quickly and you can see all the photos when you open up some post. How many times have you visited some blog and waited forever for the photos to load? My point exactly. Do yourself a favor and resize your photos. Another secret: I actually have changed the settings in my camera, so that it takes small photos (1280×960) instead of large (4608×3456) photos. This way the quality stays good, because I don’t have to downsize it that much.

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There – now I feel like I have covered all the basics. A lot goes behind the scenes!

And as a final note I want to come back to the whole ‘photos are everything’ statement. Yes, obviously writing is also important. I might click the beautiful photos, but as a reader, I stay for the content. I love words. Luckily I’ve learned to enjoy photography as well, but writing is the winner for me. But maybe that’s not the case with you? Which is more important, photos or text? I would love to hear your thoughts on this in the comment box.


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